We are like flowers. We're either growing and blooming, or we're withering and dying.
Conflicting energy can make us sick and it may never cease, unless you take control of your emotions and don't let outside events affect you.
Does it look like everyone around you wants to create a fight? Do you feel like you are in a constant conflict weather with people, situations or yourself?
You are not alone. Most people feel victimized, that's why we have so many lawyers in the world! I would like to share with you why this may be happening in your life and offer you a different perspective so you can shift these conflicting energies.
You can do this by "reframing" what happened. Reframe means to give it a new perspective, to understand it from a different point of view. If you don't do that, the price you pay is too high. You jeopardize your wellbeing, and by doing so you are not in service to the betterment of the world either!
I'm not saying you are right or wrong. I'm saying that staying in the conflict zone is poisoning to you. Understand? It's like wearing boxing gloves all the time! You may feel like if you don't protect yourself people may take advantage of you, or people may stab you in the back... so you are ready to "punch"!
Here is an example of how our minds work. If I say doctors kill people, I will collect evidence that my belief is true. I can google cases of medical malpractice and prepare a petition for people to sign so that I can win my case. On the other hand, if I believe that doctors save lives, I can do the same thing and also fight to win my case.
In other words, where you put your attention on, your mind will find evidence to help you win the case. This is how mind operates. It's not your fault. It's nobody's fault, it's simply how it works. So, you must understand that you are not your mind, and that your mind is just a tool for you to live in this world.
Your mind is like wild horses! Your body is the wagon and you are the coachman!
If you don't control those horses they will break the wagon and throw you on the ground!
No matter what you believe, your mind will look for evidence to prove it's right, and to fight. The reason this happens is because we were programed since small ages to defend ourselves, to compete, to win the game.The thing is that there is no game! Life is a series of experiences and you are here to live these experiences!
I would like to invite you to drop your boxing gloves and reflect upon times when you started to make assumptions about someone or something and these assumptions became your truth. Perhaps you had arguments with someone, or you broke up a relationship , or felt so helpless that you had to call others to help you through the fight.
Watch this video, where I'm helping my client Susan Pixley to recognize the conflicting energy that has been stoping her to create the life she would love to live. This is part 3 of the Energy Leadership Assessment Debrief that I provide to my clients before coaching sessions. It reveals how your attitude is impacting the unfolding of your life's stories.
I hope this video helps you reflect and reframe any conflicting energy you may have in your life right now.
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